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The Existential-Moment–Existential-Integrative: Goal Setting and Problem Solving

Dante finds himself lost in a shadowed wood, fear pressing in on all sides. He cannot will himself forward—he doesn’t yet know where he is, or how he got there. Then, from the darkness, appears Virgil—reason and insight in human form. Not a rescuer, not a savior, but a guide. Virgil doesn’t dictate the path; he helps Dante face it. He offers orientation when fear clouds direction, clarity when despair sets in. His role isn’t necessarily to solve or direct, but to walk alongside. 

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) uses structured goal-setting and problem-solving to translate therapeutic insights into clear, meaningful actions. Goals, defined collaboratively, are specific, measurable, and aligned with the client’s values, promoting clarity to avoid confusion and overwhelm. Problem-solving involves systematically defining barriers, generating possible solutions, and evaluating and implementing chosen actions. Regular reviews refine strategies, fostering client confidence and self-efficacy. Together, these tools operationalize therapy, making insights tangible and actionable.

Existential-Humanistic (E-H) therapy supports clients in living authentically, aligned with their genuine values and realities. Central to this work is deepening awareness of how current ways of being and protective patterns shape lived experience, relationships, and life quality. By compassionately illuminating self-and-world constructs and vulnerabilities, E-H therapists help clients deepen awareness of their current experience and explore how they truly want to live, facilitating meaningful personal change.

From an Existential-Integrative (E-I) perspective, one that integrates elements of other therapeutic modalities with E-H theory and practice, goal-setting and problem-solving, when they arise organically, become tools for guidance rather than prescription, supporting self-understanding and authentic direction. These forms of structure evolve from within the process, not outside it. Like Virgil in the forest, they can walk beside us when the path is unclear or left wanting, not to take over the journey, but as support. Thoughtfully integrated, CBT’s structure doesn’t necessarily interrupt existential work—it enriches it.

Related Blog Posts:

Read other Existential Moment posts on Existential-Integrative therapy.

Explore the therapeutic relationship in E-H therapy in previous posts. 

Read more posts about meaning-making and working with client protections in E-H therapy on EHI’s blog.

View all the Existential Moment series posts on EHI’s blog.

Existential Moment Author: Scott Gibbs, LMFT, EHI Board Member-at-Large | Website: www.mscottgibbs.com | Twitter: @Novum_Organum

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