Ring Out, Wild Bells
By Alfred, Lord Tennyson
Ring out, wild bells, to the wild sky,
The flying cloud, the frosty light:
The year is dying in the night;
Ring out, wild bells, and let him die.
Ring out the old, ring in the new,
Ring, happy bells, across the snow:
The year is going, let him go;
Ring out the false, ring in the true.
Ring out the grief that saps the mind
For those that here we see no more;
Ring out the feud of rich and poor,
Ring in redress to all mankind.
Ring out a slowly dying cause,
And ancient forms of party strife;
Ring in the nobler modes of life,
With sweeter manners, purer laws.
Ring out the want, the care, the sin,
The faithless coldness of the times;
Ring out, ring out my mournful rhymes
But ring the fuller minstrel in.
Ring out false pride in place and blood,
The civic slander and the spite;
Ring in the love of truth and right,
Ring in the common love of good.
Ring out old shapes of foul disease;
Ring out the narrowing lust of gold;
Ring out the thousand wars of old,
Ring in the thousand years of peace.
Ring in the valiant man and free,
The larger heart, the kindlier hand;
Ring out the darkness of the land,
Ring in the Christ that is to be.
“Ring out, wild bells, to the wild sky…” Tennyson’s words from In Memoriam call us to a reckoning with the old year and the birth of the new. His poem pulses with the longing to discard what weighs us down personally and socially—detachment, pride, regret, etc. — and to embrace a brighter beginning. But the transformation he invokes is not simply a celebration; it is a call to action, a challenge to confront ourselves honestly toward living differently.
What do we leave behind as the bells ring out, and what new commitments do we make as they ring in?
This moment of transition mirrors a deeper, ongoing question central to Existential-Humanistic therapy: “How am I presently living?” and “How am I willing to live?” These questions, like Tennyson’s appeal, invite us to envision change and engage with it courageously. They remind us that transformation is not a single event but a deliberate and often challenging process of examining our lives, acknowledging what no longer serves us, and making choices aligned with our deepest passions and values.
As existential-humanistic therapists, we create a space where clients can explore their lived experiences with acceptance and validation. By encouraging them to slow down and connect with their sensations, emotions, interpretations, and self-world constructs, we help unpack protective patterns that once served them but now hinder growth. Together, we illuminate what needs releasing and explore how they can live more authentically, embracing life’s paradoxes and uncertainties. In doing so, we accompany them on a journey toward greater freedom and personal significance in a process that echoes Tennyson’s call to ring out the old and ring in the new. Happy New Year!
Links to Related Blog Posts:
Read more posts about the therapeutic relationship in E-H therapy.
Read more posts about protective patterns, self-world constructs, freedom, and transformation in E-H therapy on EHI’s blog.
Read all the Existential Moment series posts on EHI’s blog.
Existential Moment Author: Scott Gibbs, LMFT, EHI Board Member-at-Large | Website: www.mscottgibbs.com | Twitter: @Novum_Organum
